I think I may be at a brief point in time where I can be ready for things that belong on the backburner to indeed dwell there. While I still frequently sabotage myself into dramatic reeling postions over that which has happened and is happening, unfixable with my hands, it doesn't scare me as much as it used to to be without people who I want to be bothered by not being with me. In more circumstances than not I wish I had a different reaction than what came. And who's to know if that really changes the other's reaction anyways. Some are just poised to fade away from you however it is possible. I make it very possible now, maybe that could make it easier to get over. I suppose it's all a pretty vague and unmemorable thing to blah about in a semi public forum. But it's good to whine sometimes.
Erica's was a fairly simple move, and with positively the best shower curtains you'd ever be lucky to see. Good choice, peach.